keepcalmandcarryon-19 asked: I'm awkward how do I text this cute guy sounding unawkward and clever?
Aw, you won’t be awkward forever, once you get used to texting guys you feel more at ease and the words tend to flow better.
Anyway, as for what you should say .. this is a super broad question! What do you want to get out of texting? Do you want to meet up with him? Kiss him? Just be friends?
If you just want to be friends abandon the flirty technique, don’t want to lead a guy on! If its anything else, message him asking about something you want to know about him. Don’t text saying “tell me about yourself” because people (girls and boys) tend to fall over that question and not know how to answer it. Pick something specific that isn’t too personal for the stage in the friendship and go with it. You could do what I did with my boyfriend, when I started reaaally liking him I texted him asking to listen to a song that had lyrics that matched our situation. I was nervous but he thought it was super cute :)
Maybe if you send me an ask with an actual text he’s sent you I can help you out with how to reply? Up to you dear, hope this helps!
Anonymous asked: So, my boyfriend.. He kind of drinks alcohol a lot.. And like we are seriously in love hands down.. But, it makes me worried because my best friend doesnt want us to be together and she says stuff like he is hanging out with girls and is trying to hook up with them and then I ask him and he tells me the opposite.. Like i don't know who to believe... My "best friend" seems like she is just trying to break us up.. What do I do..? What do I say?
I know you’re probably going to hear this a million times in your life, but, if you don’t trust your partner then you may as well not have a relationship. Unless he has given you a reason not to trust him then you need to give him the benefit of the doubt.
That being said, when he goes out drinking, do you ever go with him? Did he seem hurt or upset when you asked him if he was hooking up with girls or did he just brush it off? I don’t know your boyfriend but.. it’s not too hard to tell when someone is lying about something major. As for your best friend, unless she is with him when he’s drinking and sees him doing those things she said he was doing, then I wouldn’t trust what she’s saying… UNLESS she’s heard it from a reliable source. If you don’t trust your boyfriend then you either need to leave, or change your feelings. How do you do that? …If you never go out drinking with him, why not ask if you can go along once? If you confront him about it and still think he is lying, why not speak to one of his friends?
Maybe your best friend is trying to put ideas in your head because she
a) is jealous
b) misses spending time with you
c) doesn’t want you to have a boyfriend
It’s up to you to come to your own conclusions but I wouldn’t jump to the wrong ones so fast. If you have any more questions don’t hesitate to ask!
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend always sends me cute stuff or tells me something so sweet, and I never have any idea what to say. Any ideas? I have to stop saying fat penguin. (its an inside joke. get it? fat penguin... its an ice breaker...)
Haha, fat penguin.. cute! Well first off, don’t say anything you don’t mean.
Some cute things you could do are find some quotes or lyrics you really like about love or relationships or whatever and send them in a message to him, with nothing else in the message. I always think those are cute. Also when you randomly remember a cute or funny moment between the two of you, message him telling him about it or how it made you feel. I’m not really sure what else to say… just be honest about what you’re feeling and try and think of some things that you’d like to hear cause it’s very possible he’d like to hear them too..
Or you could just scratch all that and change penguin to polar bear ;) Good luck, dear :)
* Sends him photo of me with 0 makeup & workout clothes *
Him: You’re so beautiful. I want you to wear those with you when you come to ny everyday. lol & i like you with no makeup i love natural looks but i really like your eye shadow or whatever you call it, it makes your eyes explode and it makes me go CRAZY!!!! I think honestly, love shot the hell out of me. You are amazing in every way. You like music i like, You’re gorgeous, you’re just the right one for me. I have mad respect for you and I don’t know what to text anymore but my fingers are tired. I could write you a whole essay if I wanted <3 :)
Submitted Anonymously.
Me: Hey, I Need Directions?
Him: Directions To Where?
Me: To Your Heart <3
Him: You’re Already There <3
Submitted by krystalargueta
Him: You mean everything to me and I’m not even joking, I know we’re still young but I actually think that you are the girl I want to spend the rest of my life with :) xx
Submitted by Tia.
So we had plans to hang out for Memorial Day weekend. he asked me if i was excited about spending the weekend with him.
Me: yes, quite. ;) are you?
Him: Yes, my sweet, I am overly ecstatic for our impending reunion. My heart beats with such anticipation that the angels themselves envy the privilege that the morrow holds for me. May the Lord grant me resolve that I may wait with wavering patience for such a blessing. :D A tad overwritten? Yep, I’m excited!
Submitted Anonymously.
“You said that u don’t say ‘I love you’ easily, yet u said it to me, so I took it for what it was worth and I hold on to it. Everyday.”
Submitted by Cassandra.
Me: You’re gross.
Him: Bahahahahahahahaha<33333333333333 You’re beautiful.
Me: I hate you.
Him: I love you.
Me: You’re a fool.
Him: Love is for fools. I’m a fool.
Submitted Anonymously.
Me: I’m so lucky to have you babe! You’re the best boyfriend ever!
Him: I’m the one who’s lucky babe. You are beautiful, smart, and you have a really good heart. I am so happy you are my girlfriend.
Submitted by Kayla.
11:26am - Boyfriend: Good Morning Babe.
11:26am - Girlfriend: Good Morning.
11:39am - Girlfriend: What are you doing?
11:50am - Girlfriend: Okay? lol.
11:53am - Boyfriend: I just got to work :/ I just wanted to text you just so you know that you are the first thing I think of when I wake up.
Submitted by briannarattray
Ps you’re absolutely beautiful dear.
Submitted by Bre G.
Him: BABE, GUESS WHAT I FOUND!!
Me: what?
him: i found [insert my full name here], the love of my life.
Submitted by tomoko.
Me: I’m sorry i was so shy today /:
Him: it’s fine :3 i love you
Me: i love you more.
Him: i love you most
Me: no i do D:
Him: i do, beautiful<3
Me: you’re a cutie.
Him: <3
Submitted by gabgagnon.
Me: I’m soooooooooo awake right now…I think talking to you has this magic wake up effect on me
Him: I love you so much<3
Me: hahahaha I’m serious I could never be sleeping beauty because talking to you breaks the spell
Him: darn I was hoping I would get to kiss you and wake you up.
Submitted by countrygirly13.
