Anonymous asked: Hi there, so im a guy. One of my bestfriends had crush on this girl. So we all tried to help him, talk to her and set him up with her. Gradually we all became friends. But somewhere in between, that girl fell in love with me,and i started liking her too. So much that we are now together. She means the world to me, and i know for a fact that shes my soulmate. The problem is my bestfriend doesnt know about it. My gf and i, both cant tell him the truth without hurting him.Hes like a brother.Help me
well.. you’ve definitely left it for way too long. You should have been honest with him at the beginning when you started liking her. If he gets upset now, he kind of has a right to. You need to tell him asap, if he’s really your best friend and you want to keep him in your life. Imagine he finds out from someone else how upset he would be?
Just take him aside, try and do it in person and say “look I know you like *name*, but she told me she likes me and I really like her back. I hope you don’t take it as if I went behind your back because I really didn’t, it was an accident and I’m sorry. I hope you can forgive me” and see how it goes from there. I mean he can’t force the girl to like him so he would’ve had to deal with it either way, know what I mean? Still you should be sensitive to his feelings.
Good luck x
Him: You’ll probably hook up with him.
Me: Idk if i want to
Him: why not?
Me: I like you
Me: I don’t want to be with another guy
Me: haha (:
Him: Youre pretty cute.
Submitted by crazy-child
In your eyes I find a hope,
A hope in your eyes I’ve seen.
And on your lips I find a kiss,
A kiss that gives me wings:
To fly away into the sky,
Into the sky so blue.
I’d give up everything I am,
To be everything to you.
In my soul there is a yearning,
To hold you in my arms.
And in my heart there is a burning,
To keep you from all harm.
Your voice as sweet as honey,
ever-tender in my ear.
Your lips dripping nectar from the gods
To sooth away my fears.
In your fingertips I find a touch,
Feels like fire on my skin.
You’ve given me the torch of love,
To light my flame again.
I want to lay with you under the stars,
To see them sparkle in the skies,
To kiss your lips so tenderly
And get lost in the depth of your eyes.
In your smile I see a love,
A love that stretches to the skies.
And in my smile I know you’ll find
A love that will NEVER die.
Submitted by wishmaster91
“Baby, My mind- Nor the English language, has the words to describe how much I love you. I’m not sure how, But I will spend my life with you trying to find the collection of words, pictures, drawings, movies, quotes, flowers, chocolates, Crane machine prizes, and any other cliche that you can think of that it will take to show you how strong I truly love you. All I can hope is that you will stay with me until that day that my collection is complete.. And with my love growing ever stronger with each rising sun, I know in my heart that I’ll never have to face the when you leave. Babe, You are an amazing girl and an even more amazing girlfriend that I am very lucky to have. I never want you to leave me & just remember what I told you- You’ll be stunning only until a hawk comes and rips off your face, dumps you in acid, and you manage to crawl the hell out and you sunburn. Until then, Quit saying you look bad babygirl :) Good morning!”
Submitted by Kelly.
Jake: You wanna know why I smile in the morning?
Jake: Because when I turn on my phone I see your beautiful face.
Submitted by katelyn-young
Me: Oh, so you want to keep me forever?
Him: Yes! I do!
Me: Do you want me to be your high-school sweetheart?
Him: Haha i guess so…I mean…you are:)
Me: Awww! so you want to be able to say, “Yeah this is my girlfriend, we’ve been together forever”?
Him: Nope.. It’d be, “Yeah this is my wife….”;)
Submitted by Carla.
Me: babe I’m sick
Her: Don’t be cause I’ll see you tomorrow
Me: I’m lovesick and you’re my medicine ;)
Her: D’awweee hope u feel better..i love u <3
Lately when I look into your eyes I realized
You’re the only one I need in my life.
Baby I just don’t know how to decribe
How lovely you made me feel inside.
Submitted by Ann.
“there’s no doubt i can be an incredibly difficult person and that sometimes im hard to work out..but no one else has ever gotten into my head like you have- ever. and i truly believe no one else ever will. and just to let you know stuff that maybe you’ve also forgotten….i still want to watch tv shows with you. i still want to watch movies with you. i still want to swim in water with you. i still want to fly with you again. i still want to be in another country with you. i still want to shower with you. i still want to share bubble baths. i still want to make dinner together. i still want to take photos together. and most important of all…i still miss you all the time.”
Submitted by itsinevitable.
So I really love your blog! You always give good advice and I was wondering if maybe you could help me. So my boyfriend and I, are going to Washington to visit my mom. And well I told my dad, about how my boyfriend who I have been with for 9 months is going with me, and he starts flipping out and calling me and my mom names. And then he told me my boyfriend is banned from coming to the house. I don’t understand why my dad still treats me like a child when I’m not. How can I talk to him to make him understand that my boyfriend means good and isn’t like most guys. My dad has met my boyfriend a hundred times, and he knows that my boyfriend would never hurt me and that he has good intentions, so why would my dad be furious when I say my boyfriend and I are going to spend the holidays with my mom. Please help :/
Submitted by maddieyanes.
Well, the only thing I can really think of here is that maybe your dad is jealous you’re spending the holidays with your mum? I mean if he has been comfortable with your boyfriend in the past then this is kind of strange. Maybe you need to sit down and talk to him. Ask him what the problem is and why he’s so upset? Maybe he’s worried that something will happen while you’re over there with your boyfriend. Does he let your boyfriend stay over at your house? Because that could be a reason why as well.
There’s no point in me guessing though cause you cant fix this unless you talk to him. He wont know what you’re feeling and you wont know what’s going on with him. Your parents are mostly always going to treat you like a child, because you will always be their child but when you’re still living with them you kind of just have to deal with it if you want your home life to be somewhat peaceful. You know that your boyfriend wont hurt you and isn’t like other guys but your dad doesn’t know that. You’re his daughter and he’s going to be weary of any boyfriend you have. That’s his job, dear. Just talk to him and see what happens.
Best of luck :) x
There is a guy I really like, I’m kinda obsessed with him and can’t stop thinking about him. Anyway, I asked him a couple of weeks ago if he wanted to do something, go out :) He answered like this “I’m sorry but I have to say no for the moment, I’m gonna realize I want to eventually though :)” And then I said I would be happy to whenever he can, and that we should talk again soon. But now it’s been a month and I really want to see him. What should I do? We go to different schools so we don’t meet unless we plan to.. :/
Submitted by Hanna.
Uhm, I’m not really sure what he means by what he said? I mean, you either want to see someone, or you don’t…. so that’s slightly confusing. You can ask him again if you want to but don’t say “we should go out sometime”, give him an actual day and time and place, that way if he doesn’t want to see you, he has a way out. Also, you will know if he wants to see you by what he does. He will either a) say, no sorry I can’t I’m busy that day or b) yeah, sure or c) I can’t that day but how about Tuesday next week?
If he says he can’t see you that day but then suggests another time to meet up, you know he wants to see you. If he says no and doesn’t suggest any other time, you can take it as he probably doesn’t want to meet up with you.
Good luck with whatever happens, dear.
Anonymous asked: It's been 3weeks after meeting this guy and I think I love him. I never felt like this before, not even with my two exes. With him it's different. Like from the very start, it's like we just clicked. Is it weird? He kinda feels the same with me. We exchange i love you's now and we kissed during our 4th date. Waaah. It's like happening so fast but I kinda like and don't like it at the same time. Should I stop myself from falling for this guy?
“I think I love him” …when you love someone, you know. It’s not a thought thing, it’s a feeling.
It’s fine that it’s moving fast but if you want to slow it down then have a chat with him and talk about your boundaries, how far you’re willing to go, how much you’re willing to do, etc.
I don’t see any reason why you should stop yourself from falling for this guy, you haven’t mentioned anything that would suggest he is a player or has had many girlfriends that you should be weary of. Just tread carefully though, cause you can’t really know a person after 3 weeks, it’s not a very long time.
Good luck x
Anonymous asked: Okay so me and my boyfriend is not together but he still wants to have sex , im hesitating because i dont feel that right im not a booty call but then agin i think i should because i dont want him to go and get sex from another girl , HELPPPPPP , please? :)<3
Don’t do it. He’ll think he can use you for that whenever he wants and he’ll have no intention of getting back together with you.
If you’re broken up why don’t you want him to have sex with anyone else? Why does that matter to you? Obviously the decision is yours to make but if you don’t want to be used just for sex, then I advise against it. Think about why you’re not together anymore and what lead to the break-up if you need a reason not to do it.
Good luck with whatever you decide.
I have some posts queued for you guys but I need some help with something. Who’s good at sentimental gift giving? It’s for mine and the boyfriend’s 3 year anniversary which is on Friday and I need to get something done asap (I already have the present, just need your help to decide something), as in tomorrow. Just private message me on here if you’d like to help me decide on something!
I would really, really, really appreciate it :)
Anonymous asked: My boyfriend broke up with me today. He was my first boyfriend/ broken heart. We were only together 6 months, but I gave my heart to him. He says he still likes me, but neither one of us are ready to date yet, especially long distance (our colleges are 2,000 miles apart) until we mature. What do I do? Should I try to keep up some sort of relationship and communication and hold out hope? Or should I completely forget about him? Oh, and I'm already transferring to his college next semester...
Well I was going to say just let the relationship “tinker” out on its own, but if you’re moving to the same college next semester you might want to try and keep the friendship alive so it’s not awkward and so you have someone to hang with. I think that if you can just be friends with him, and go to college next semester not expecting anything to happen and just go with the flow, then you’ll be fine. You might even eventually end up together, you never know.
Good luck xx