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Hi there, so im a guy. One of my bestfriends had crush on this girl. So we all tried to help him, talk to her and set him up with her. Gradually we all became friends. But somewhere in between, that girl fell in love with me,and i started liking her too. So much that we are now together. She means the world to me, and i know for a fact that shes my soulmate. The problem is my bestfriend doesnt know about it. My gf and i, both cant tell him the truth without hurting him.Hes like a brother.Help me

Tue, 05 Feb 2013 18:33:36 +1100

well.. you’ve definitely left it for way too long. You should have been honest with him at the beginning when you started liking her. If he gets upset now, he kind of has a right to. You need to tell him asap, if he’s really your best friend and you want to keep him in your life. Imagine he finds out from someone else how upset he would be?

Just take him aside, try and do it in person and say “look I know you like *name*, but she told me she likes me and I really like her back. I hope you don’t take it as if I went behind your back because I really didn’t, it was an accident and I’m sorry. I hope you can forgive me” and see how it goes from there. I mean he can’t force the girl to like him so he would’ve had to deal with it either way, know what I mean? Still you should be sensitive to his feelings.

Good luck x

Me and My guy best friend have finally started to get closer :)

Thu, 17 Jan 2013 17:09:04 +1100

Him: You’ll probably hook up with him.
Me: Idk if i want to
Him: why not?
Me: I like you
Him: so?
Me: I don’t want to be with another guy
Him: (:
Me: haha (:
Him: Youre pretty cute.

Submitted by crazy-child

I'm in a long distance relationship with my lover & I sent her this:

Thu, 17 Jan 2013 13:43:03 +1100

In your eyes I find a hope,
A hope in your eyes I’ve seen.
And on your lips I find a kiss,
A kiss that gives me wings:
To fly away into the sky,
Into the sky so blue.
I’d give up everything I am,
To be everything to you.

In my soul there is a yearning,
To hold you in my arms.
And in my heart there is a burning,
To keep you from all harm.

Your voice as sweet as honey,
ever-tender in my ear.
Your lips dripping nectar from the gods
To sooth away my fears.

In your fingertips I find a touch,
Feels like fire on my skin.
You’ve given me the torch of love,
To light my flame again.

I want to lay with you under the stars,
To see them sparkle in the skies,
To kiss your lips so tenderly
And get lost in the depth of your eyes.

In your smile I see a love,
A love that stretches to the skies.
And in my smile I know you’ll find
A love that will NEVER die.

Submitted by wishmaster91

“Baby, My mind- Nor the English language, has the words to describe how much I love you....

Tue, 15 Jan 2013 10:17:18 +1100

“Baby, My mind- Nor the English language, has the words to describe how much I love you. I’m not sure how, But I will spend my life with you trying to find the collection of words, pictures, drawings, movies, quotes, flowers, chocolates, Crane machine prizes, and any other cliche that you can think of that it will take to show you how strong I truly love you. All I can hope is that you will stay with me until that day that my collection is complete.. And with my love growing ever stronger with each rising sun, I know in my heart that I’ll never have to face the when you leave. Babe, You are an amazing girl and an even more amazing girlfriend that I am very lucky to have. I never want you to leave me & just remember what I told you- You’ll be stunning only until a hawk comes and rips off your face, dumps you in acid, and you manage to crawl the hell out and you sunburn. Until then, Quit saying you look bad babygirl :) Good morning!”

Submitted by Kelly.

Jake: You wanna know why I smile in the morning?Me: Why?Jake: Because when I turn on my phone I see...

Tue, 15 Jan 2013 06:51:52 +1100

Jake: You wanna know why I smile in the morning?
Me: Why?
Jake: Because when I turn on my phone I see your beautiful face.

Submitted by katelyn-young

He's so sweet <3

Tue, 15 Jan 2013 03:25:58 +1100

Me: Oh, so you want to keep me forever?
Him: Yes! I do!
Me: Do you want me to be your high-school sweetheart?
Him: Haha i guess so…I mean…you are:)
Me: Awww! so you want to be able to say, “Yeah this is my girlfriend, we’ve been together forever”?
Him: Nope.. It’d be, “Yeah this is my wife….”;)

Submitted by Carla.

Lovesick

Mon, 14 Jan 2013 20:34:23 +1100

Me: babe I’m sick
Her: Don’t be cause I’ll see you tomorrow
Me: I’m lovesick and you’re my medicine ;)
Her: D’awweee hope u feel better..i love u <3

Submitted Anonymously.

Don't you think it's cute ? <3

Mon, 14 Jan 2013 17:08:49 +1100

Lately when I look into your eyes I realized

You’re the only one I need in my life.

Baby I just don’t know how to decribe

How lovely you made me feel inside.

Submitted by Ann.

“there’s no doubt i can be an incredibly difficult person and that sometimes im hard to...

Mon, 14 Jan 2013 15:06:00 +1100

“there’s no doubt i can be an incredibly difficult person and that sometimes im hard to work out..but no one else has ever gotten into my head like you have- ever. and i truly believe no one else ever will. and just to let you know stuff that maybe you’ve also forgotten….i still want to watch tv shows with you. i still want to watch movies with you. i still want to swim in water with you. i still want to fly with you again. i still want to be in another country with you. i still want to shower with you. i still want to share bubble baths. i still want to make dinner together. i still want to take photos together. and most important of all…i still miss you all the time.”

Submitted by itsinevitable.

So I really love your blog! You always give good advice and I was wondering if maybe you could help...

Thu, 20 Dec 2012 03:25:49 +1100

So I really love your blog! You always give good advice and I was wondering if maybe you could help me. So my boyfriend and I, are going to Washington to visit my mom. And well I told my dad, about how my boyfriend who I have been with for 9 months is going with me, and he starts flipping out and calling me and my mom names. And then he told me my boyfriend is banned from coming to the house. I don’t understand why my dad still treats me like a child when I’m not. How can I talk to him to make him understand that my boyfriend means good and isn’t like most guys. My dad has met my boyfriend a hundred times, and he knows that my boyfriend would never hurt me and that he has good intentions, so why would my dad be furious when I say my boyfriend and I are going to spend the holidays with my mom. Please help :/

Submitted by maddieyanes.
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Well, the only thing I can really think of here is that maybe your dad is jealous you’re spending the holidays with your mum? I mean if he has been comfortable with your boyfriend in the past then this is kind of strange. Maybe you need to sit down and talk to him. Ask him what the problem is and why he’s so upset? Maybe he’s worried that something will happen while you’re over there with your boyfriend. Does he let your boyfriend stay over at your house? Because that could be a reason why as well.

There’s no point in me guessing though cause you cant fix this unless you talk to him. He wont know what you’re feeling and you wont know what’s going on with him. Your parents are mostly always going to treat you like a child, because you will always be their child but when you’re still living with them you kind of just have to deal with it if you want your home life to be somewhat peaceful. You know that your boyfriend wont hurt you and isn’t like other guys but your dad doesn’t know that. You’re his daughter and he’s going to be weary of any boyfriend you have. That’s his job, dear. Just talk to him and see what happens.

Best of luck :) x

I need your advice :)

Wed, 19 Dec 2012 21:45:58 +1100

There is a guy I really like, I’m kinda obsessed with him and can’t stop thinking about him. Anyway, I asked him a couple of weeks ago if he wanted to do something, go out :) He answered like this “I’m sorry but I have to say no for the moment, I’m gonna realize I want to eventually though :)” And then I said I would be happy to whenever he can, and that we should talk again soon. But now it’s been a month and I really want to see him. What should I do? We go to different schools so we don’t meet unless we plan to.. :/

Submitted by Hanna.
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Uhm, I’m not really sure what he means by what he said? I mean, you either want to see someone, or you don’t…. so that’s slightly confusing. You can ask him again if you want to but don’t say “we should go out sometime”, give him an actual day and time and place, that way if he doesn’t want to see you, he has a way out. Also, you will know if he wants to see you by what he does. He will either a) say, no sorry I can’t I’m busy that day or b) yeah, sure or c) I can’t that day but how about Tuesday next week?

If he says he can’t see you that day but then suggests another time to meet up, you know he wants to see you. If he says no and doesn’t suggest any other time, you can take it as he probably doesn’t want to meet up with you.

Good luck with whatever happens, dear.

It's been 3weeks after meeting this guy and I think I love him. I never felt like this before, not even with my two exes. With him it's different. Like from the very start, it's like we just clicked. Is it weird? He kinda feels the same with me. We exchange i love you's now and we kissed during our 4th date. Waaah. It's like happening so fast but I kinda like and don't like it at the same time. Should I stop myself from falling for this guy?

Wed, 19 Dec 2012 17:08:45 +1100

“I think I love him” …when you love someone, you know. It’s not a thought thing, it’s a feeling.

It’s fine that it’s moving fast but if you want to slow it down then have a chat with him and talk about your boundaries, how far you’re willing to go, how much you’re willing to do, etc.

I don’t see any reason why you should stop yourself from falling for this guy, you haven’t mentioned anything that would suggest he is a player or has had many girlfriends that you should be weary of. Just tread carefully though, cause you can’t really know a person after 3 weeks, it’s not a very long time.

Good luck x

Okay so me and my boyfriend is not together but he still wants to have sex , im hesitating because i dont feel that right im not a booty call but then agin i think i should because i dont want him to go and get sex from another girl , HELPPPPPP , please? :)<3

Wed, 19 Dec 2012 13:43:22 +1100

Don’t do it. He’ll think he can use you for that whenever he wants and he’ll have no intention of getting back together with you.

If you’re broken up why don’t you want him to have sex with anyone else? Why does that matter to you? Obviously the decision is yours to make but if you don’t want to be used just for sex, then I advise against it. Think about why you’re not together anymore and what lead to the break-up if you need a reason not to do it.

Good luck with whatever you decide.

I have some posts queued for you guys but I need some help with something. Who’s good at...

Wed, 19 Dec 2012 13:15:00 +1100

I have some posts queued for you guys but I need some help with something. Who’s good at sentimental gift giving? It’s for mine and the boyfriend’s 3 year anniversary which is on Friday and I need to get something done asap (I already have the present, just need your help to decide something), as in tomorrow. Just private message me on here if you’d like to help me decide on something!

I would really, really, really appreciate it :)

My boyfriend broke up with me today. He was my first boyfriend/ broken heart. We were only together 6 months, but I gave my heart to him. He says he still likes me, but neither one of us are ready to date yet, especially long distance (our colleges are 2,000 miles apart) until we mature. What do I do? Should I try to keep up some sort of relationship and communication and hold out hope? Or should I completely forget about him? Oh, and I'm already transferring to his college next semester...

Fri, 07 Dec 2012 10:17:38 +1100

Well I was going to say just let the relationship “tinker” out on its own, but if you’re moving to the same college next semester you might want to try and keep the friendship alive so it’s not awkward and so you have someone to hang with. I think that if you can just be friends with him, and go to college next semester not expecting anything to happen and just go with the flow, then you’ll be fine. You might even eventually end up together, you never know.

Good luck xx

this guy i've been talking to for about a month came to visit me during homecoming weekend! it was great, only he assumed we were going to have sex that night and i told him i wasn't ready just yet. he was totally cool about it. the next day he and his friends decided to go out cause they haven't seen each other in a while, but i haven't heard from him since he left. do i text him or just forget about it? i feel like he just wanted sex which sucks cause i really started falling for him

Fri, 07 Dec 2012 06:51:55 +1100

Unfortunately, yes. It seems like he did just want sex. You can text him if you like, just to give you some sort of closure but I wouldn’t really expect anything out of it. Just text him something casual like “hey! it’s been a while. been up to much?” and see how it goes from there. If he seems genuinely interested in talking to you then maybe ask him to meet up and see what unfolds.

Best of luck x

Christmas Presents!

Fri, 07 Dec 2012 03:26:13 +1100

Me: what do you want me to get you for christmas?
Him: Idk
Me: You suck. just tell me what you want.
Him: Nothing (:
Me: You’re no help at all
Him: I promise I don’t want anything. Just you (:

Submitted by crazy-child

So my dad left my mum and I when I was 2 for no reason. My boyfriend and I where cuddling and talking about birthdays. His is 11th of May,.which I just found out that, that's my dads birthday. Should I tell him, if so what should I say? Thank you! Xx

Thu, 06 Dec 2012 20:34:41 +1100

I’m not sure I’m understanding what you mean, dear. Why do you want to tell him that your dad’s birthday is the same day as his? I mean..what’s that going to achieve? Other than make him feel awkward that you’ll be thinking of your dad on his birthday. If you wanted to tell him, you should’ve told him at the time cause it’s kinda awkward to bring it up now? I mean obviously it’s up to you, but I don’t think it’s a necessary detail - especially if you don’t see/speak to your dad.

P1- hey I really need advice on my realationship and u r very wise. Me n my ex bf broke up abt two days ago after 7 months of dating. I love him so much but o broke up wit him because he told me he didn't know where the relationship was going and that he was unsure of his feelings. His family told him that by six months he should know if he would like to marry me or not.. which I think its true. I just don't know what to do anymore. I miss him n he is my bestfriend. When we broke up he only said

Thu, 06 Dec 2012 17:08:43 +1100

(continued) “okay” … I feel like maybe he doesn’t want me in his life. We havent talked and of I hadn’t texted him today maybe we wouldn’t have talked again. I just want him in my life. He is 26 and I am 21. All his relationships have failed because he is unsure of his feelings. Wat should I do?

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I don’t know if I agree with the whole “6 month marriage rule” but after seven months you should definitely know whether you want to spend more time with that person or not. I think that you were right to break up with him. You shouldn’t want to be with someone who doesn’t know whether they want to be with you. I mean if someone really loves you and wants to be with you, they make sure you cant get away, and make sure that you know how much they love you. I think it’s okay to want him in your life, you can be friends if you think you can handle that, but as for being with him, I don’t think it’ll work out. I mean if at 26 years old you still don’t know how to interpret your own feelings then he’s obviously not very mature, or you’re not the one for him. The fact that you broke up with him and he didn’t even try to fight it should be proof enough. If you REALLY want to be with him and you really think you can make it work then try meeting up in person and talking to him. Ask him questions that make him think like “why don’t you know?” “what’s holding you back?” etc.

Hope this helps and good luck x

Hey there, i really love your blog ! but i actually came to ask you for advice..I've been in a relationship with a guy for 9months & i really love(d) him but he cheated on me more than once. anyways, we broke up 7months ago, we didn't broke up with a fight or something he just left me without a reason. In the past 7months we still talked to eachother sometimes, i don't know what he wants one day he's like 'i miss you babe' &other days he's like 'i dont want you' please help, i still love him :(

Thu, 06 Dec 2012 03:26:13 +1100

Why do you love someone who thinks you’re worthless?

Just think about that. I mean, if he REALLY loved you, would he have cheated on you? I don’t think so. All he means when he says “I miss you” is that “I’m bored and no girls are giving me attention so I’ll run to my ex, she will give me attention!!” Seriously, that’s all it means. You might think you love him but perhaps that’s just because you don’t know any better.. especially if he was your first serious relationship. For goodness sake, HE CHEATED ON YOU!!! Why on earth would you want to go back to that life? Why would you want to put yourself through that AGAIN?

Ditch the loser, block him, delete him, delete his number - do whatever you have to do to keep him out of your life because seriously he is not even worth one minute of your time. Do it for your own self worth if for nothing else.