Anonymous asked: i'm sorry in advance, but this is going to be a 2 parter: okay so i've liked this boy at work since he started which was back in feburary and we used to work the same shifts, we'd flirt a lot and i gave him my number and then we texted for awhile and then i stopped because he liked another girl along with me, well she quit and then i started to talk to him more because i knew he wouldn't be preoccupied. then his shifts changed and i barely see him anymore and we'd still text, but not as often...
then last week my friend text me saying that he was asking about me and how he’s gonna miss me when i leave (i’m moving in a few weeks to a different town 3 hour away) and that lifted my spirits. last week we were texting and he started calling me wifey, boo and baby and i thought it was weird well turns out he said that he got my number mixed up. i was mad obviously but i’m calling bs because he asked me a few weeks ago when i was moving. is it possible that he said that because he was embarrassed or because to like make me jealous that he’s probably talking to another girl and in turn, that’d make me want to get with him? my second question: i’m obviously not going to give up on him even though i’m leaving in a few weeks but i just would like to possibly hook up with him and then leave because that way i know i’d achieve something worthwhile at work. that’s probably a bad idea but this kid is good looking. or should i just not do anything and move on? sorry this was so long.
No worries about it being long! Get it all out :) haha hmmmmm. It is possible that he said that he got you mixed up with another girl (that’s pretty impossible to do, unless you have the same name) to make you jealous, or maybe because you didn’t take it the way he wanted you to and he was embarrassed. Personally, I think you should text him and say “Hey I was just wondering if you were free this *Saturday* (or whichever day) to go and have lunch/see a movie/go for a walk” - whatever it may be and see what he replies. If you do meet up, put your hand on his hand in the movies, or brush your hand against his when you’re walking and towards the end of the date (not too close to the end) try to kiss him. I know that probably sounds scary but if that’s what you want to do then do it! If it backfires, you’ll be leaving soon and wont have to face him anyway! If you think that you’ll end up liking him then you probably shouldn’t kiss him if you’re going to be moving away because that’ll just confuse both of your feelings.
Good luck with it all :) xx