Anonymous asked: Hi, so I've been with my boyfriend for one and a half months. Our relationship started off with us communicating a lot, but recently we rarely talk anymore. More and more whenever I call him, I find that he doesn't answer. When I text him, he doesn't reply. Just last night I asked if he was awake and he told me he was at a party and apologized about not replying previously for he was partying again. I was hurt and angry, I haven't talked to him since then. I'm afraid to bring it up because
(continued..) he tends to manipulate any argument we have making me seem immature. I appreciate any advice or suggestions you have. Thank you for your time and patience.
Well if you’re feeling this way then you need to tell him exactly how you feel. It isn’t going to magically get better if you sit there and say nothing.. it’s going to get worse. I think that you need to see him in person and you need to tell him how you’re feeling. Tell him that you’re unhappy with the way you’re being treated and if he wants to be in this relationship he needs to put in 100% and not 50%.. he has to want to be in the relationship. If he tries to turn the argument against you just say “these are my feelings. you need to respect and accept the way I feel and you should be trying your best to stop me from feeling this way.”
If talking to him doesn’t change anything then I think you know where you stand. Good luck.