Anonymous asked: ok so ive been with this guy for way over a year now and im happily in love with him. but there is a problem. his dad is dating my mom. we got alot of shit for it when we first started dating and we just kind of ignored it. but im afriad that if our parents get to serious then we wont be able to get married or have kids or any of the plans that we have. im so sorry if this is weird. help please?
Okay well, I’m just gonna be honest here and say I’ve never heard of something like this so I don’t really know what…or how to help you but please don’t be sorry for pointless things! You can’t help who you fall in love with :)
Anyways, as for your problem, I don’t think that your parents getting serious should affect you and your boyfriend’s relationship. I mean, if they get married, technically you will be STEP brother and sister, but I wouldn’t really say there’s something wrong with that since you’re not blood related or anything weird like that. And also you were together before your parents decided to get married (if they do) so it’s not like you started dating when you were already brother and sister……. I don’t know I guess it’d probably be weird to some people but I don’t see anything wrong with it.. Just take each day as it comes and see how it goes. I think it’s probably worth talking to both of your parents about your concerns as well if you can and just see how they feel about it.
Good luck, lovely :) xx
Anonymous asked: My boyfriends kinda making me feel shit, its like he doesn't really care.. he was getting annoyed by my cutting, isn't he suppost to be supportive and help me through it? not tell his friends its annoying him?.. Also hes added my cousin and she said he was cute and giving her cute advice, I felt gutted.. I feel like I mean jack shit to him and Im sick of it. He knows when I get angry about it, but then he just assumes im gonna dump him.. help? :(
This is a bit confusing, love but I’ll try to help you. If you have problems with depression and cutting, don’t you think it would be best to get help from a professional about it? Your boyfriend probably doesn’t know how to deal with it and in turn gets frustrated about it because he can’t help you and takes it out on you. I think for yours, and your relationship’s sake, you should definitely seek help. He is supposed to be supportive and help you, yes, but he can’t if he doesn’t know how. Why don’t you go and see someone together so he can learn how to help you? About him adding your cousin, it’s possible he’s just being friendly and because you’re upset about other things, it’s making you see it in a bad way. If you want to say something to your cousin about calling him cute, then you can do that but just be calm about it. Just say I would prefer it if you didn’t call my boyfriend cute… it makes me uncomfortable” or whatever it is you want to say. Maybe being in a relationship is not the best thing for you right now.. it seems like it’s just making it harder to sort out your own issues. You say he makes you feel like you mean nothing to him and you’re sick of it, so maybe you need to talk a break from each other.
I really hope I haven’t offended you but I just want you to worry about what’s best for yourself right now. That should be your top priority. Best of luck with everything and if you need anything else you know where to find me xx
