Anonymous asked: Hi, I'm just starting to talk to this boy and I am extremely shy. I don't know what topics to talk about and just make it a flowing conversation and I don't want him to get bored of me :( What are some things I could talk about?
Hi love, you wont always be shy! Once you start to become more comfortable with him the conversation will flow on it’s own. As for now, you could ask him about his family life, if he has any siblings, what he wants to do when he finishes school, ask about his past relationships, or what he likes to do in his spare time. Just basically, ask what you want to know about him. The topics are honestly endless. Favourite songs/music genre, what concerts he’s been to, favourite movies, favourite tv shows etc etc. :)
Aight so i really like this girl and im pretty shy, i dont know if she likes me anymore than a friend, we went to the mall the other day and had a really good time talked a lot and stuff. Do i just ask her? :O
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Yes you should ask her. Either send her a text or ask next time you see each other. Start off by saying “I had a really good time the other day.. I like spending time with you.” and then maybe try to introduce the topic of being more than friends or that you like her as more than a friend and what she thinks of that.
Good luck :)
Anonymous asked: I'm planning to go up to this really cute guy and go ask him about his job as an excuse to talk to him,I'm so awkward and shy but I think I can do this any tips to tell him I wanna be friends without thinking I'm a weird random?
Haha good on you for initiating something! Just start talking to him and try to keep the conversation going and then at the end, you could say “it’s been really nice talking to you, do you mind giving me your number?” Or if you don’t feel comfortable asking for his number you could ask to add him on facebook or something a bit more casual, know what I mean. That way he’ll know you want to keep talking more :)
Good luck dear, keep me posted if you like! xx
Anonymous asked: I have a crush on a guy for 4 months. I think he liked me too, but a month ago he told me he doesn't like anyone. But last week,his best friend told me he actually likes me a lot,but I don't know what to think.. We're both shy and I'm really confused :( What do you think? What should I do?
Ask him out. You don’t have to ask him to date you but at least ask him to meet up. You have to put the shyness behind you because if one of you doesn’t do something, no one will. You cant expect the guy to do everything. Maybe ask him to the movies because it takes some pressure off - you don’t have to talk during a movie, but also, if you want to, you can. If he says no, or makes up some excuse without suggesting another time to go out, then he probably isn’t interested in you. If he says yes, then good! See how you go from there :) xx
Anonymous asked: my boyfriend always asks me to care him and love him the way he do. But i never find the right words to say and im always shy.. We are in a serious relationship and we have done everything together, yet im shy when it comes to sharing and telling him whts in my heart.. What should i do to make these things right
Maybe if you can’t say them out loud you should try writing him a letter and if still you think you don’t know what to say, make him a CD of songs that have lyrics in them that explain the way you feel about your boyfriend. Tell him that you love him a lot but don’t know the right words to explain your feelings.
Hope this helps!
