Anonymous asked: My boyfriends kinda making me feel shit, its like he doesn't really care.. he was getting annoyed by my cutting, isn't he suppost to be supportive and help me through it? not tell his friends its annoying him?.. Also hes added my cousin and she said he was cute and giving her cute advice, I felt gutted.. I feel like I mean jack shit to him and Im sick of it. He knows when I get angry about it, but then he just assumes im gonna dump him.. help? :(
This is a bit confusing, love but I’ll try to help you. If you have problems with depression and cutting, don’t you think it would be best to get help from a professional about it? Your boyfriend probably doesn’t know how to deal with it and in turn gets frustrated about it because he can’t help you and takes it out on you. I think for yours, and your relationship’s sake, you should definitely seek help. He is supposed to be supportive and help you, yes, but he can’t if he doesn’t know how. Why don’t you go and see someone together so he can learn how to help you? About him adding your cousin, it’s possible he’s just being friendly and because you’re upset about other things, it’s making you see it in a bad way. If you want to say something to your cousin about calling him cute, then you can do that but just be calm about it. Just say I would prefer it if you didn’t call my boyfriend cute… it makes me uncomfortable” or whatever it is you want to say. Maybe being in a relationship is not the best thing for you right now.. it seems like it’s just making it harder to sort out your own issues. You say he makes you feel like you mean nothing to him and you’re sick of it, so maybe you need to talk a break from each other.
I really hope I haven’t offended you but I just want you to worry about what’s best for yourself right now. That should be your top priority. Best of luck with everything and if you need anything else you know where to find me xx
Anonymous asked: help!! I havent spoken to my bf in two days and then when we were talking with each other today he didnt say he missed me and i got angry and then he got angry because he said he had a lot of things on his mind about relatives being in trouble and sick, and he told me a few days ago but i forgot, and he went offline and i said sorry like a million times and he said it's fine but i just feel really bad about hurting him and only thinking of myself.. i don't want to smother him, but i love him and
(continued…) and want to know if he’s ok, but he’s not answering his phone or replying to my texts :( i want to be there for him like he was for me, but he isn’t letting me, and i don’t know what to do :(
I cant imagine how hard that would be for you. Being ignored is horrible. Maybe it’s a matter of you going to see him and apologising face-to-face in order for him to see that you’re serious. If you cant do that, send him a letter in the mail, explaining how you feel, that you’re sorry for being selfish but you just want him all to yourself and forget that he needs some alone time sometimes. Explain that you’ll try harder, but you need him to let you in and to help him. Tell him that you want to be there for him as much as he needs you and if he needs space, to just let you know, so that you know he just needs some time and aren’t constantly messaging and calling him.
Good luck lovely.
Anonymous asked: I met this guy in 5th grade, he asked me out then and at the time i thought i was too young so i didn't date him. now we're in 10 th grade, i hadn't talked to him in about 4 years he texts me ant claims he still likes me. he asked me out and i said yes then i had to cancel because i was sick. He hasn't texted me and its been 3 months. Should I just move on?
Yes. I think it is extremely strange that a boy would text you after 4 years of not even having spoken and say that he likes you. A person changes a lot in 4 years, so it is pretty much impossible he could ‘like’ the person you are now. I would say that he hasn’t texted you in 3 months because he asked YOU out and YOU blew him off and never bothered to text him back to organise another date. That’s pretty unfair, so I don’t blame him for not texting you. Obviously he’s going to think you’re not interested. If you want to try again, text him asking him out but don’t be surprised if he says no.
crazycosgroveee asked: my boyfriend is sickk!! what do i do??
I hope you mean he is sick with the flu or something similar and nothing too major!!
If it is the flu, buy him soup and cold & flu/cough medicine, his favourite candy and take it over to his house with his favourite movie!
If it’s anything else, elaborate so I can try to help you more, love xx