My boyfriend is in the marines and is in the field for 2-3 weeks so I wont get to talk to him much and he just sent me this text (: I swear I fall in love with him more and more everyday:
“I just want you to know I miss you so much and that I’m thinking about you the whole time. I love you with my whole heart and more and we will be together soon babe. Try not to worry or think about me too much, I’ll text you every chance I get. I love you.”
He’s what keeps me going everyday. He’s my entire world <3
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Me: How long do you think you’ll love me?
Him: I will stop loving you when a mute guy tells a deaf guy that a blind guy saw a legless guy walk on water.
We were in a fight and I was insecure of our relationship. This changed my whole mindset. I don’t know what I did to deserve him..
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Anonymous asked: k so I met this guy and I literally fell for him. At first he seemed to like me to, we kind of live far away from each other but we would text 24/7 and all of a sudden he stopped texting me. It's killing me because I don't know why he's ignoring me. We were getting along so well and he just decides to stop talking to me? I don't want to text him because he obviously doesn't want to talk to me but I really wanna know why he did this. what should I do?
You literally fell for him? hahaha okay.. sorry had to laugh! Now onto your question:
I think you should just send him a casual kind of text saying “hey, haven’t heard from you in a while, what have you been up to?” or whatever you want to say and see if he replies. If after, say, 2 days he hasn’t replied, (I wouldn’t recommend this but I know what it’s like to need closure) send him another text and say “Look, it’s obvious you don’t want to talk to me anymore since I haven’t heard from you in so long but I just want to know what happened. Did I do something wrong?” and see what happens from there.
Sometimes someone can seem really into you and then out of nowhere it’s like they can’t even remember ever having spoken to you. It’s an awful feeling and sometimes you never get the answers as to why, and you just have to move on.
Hopefully that’s not the case for you though, best of luck love x
Anonymous asked: Me and my boyfriend have been together for about 3 months. Me and my boyfriend live in the same neighborhood & he texted me asking for me to meet him behind his friends house. When i got there he was just sitting there waiting and it started to poor rain... he just got up and hugged me and then we had this really romantic kiss in the rain. Later that night he said someone told him i kissed another guy and we got in a huge fight. Then he broke up with me, what did i do wrong? i didnt kiss a guy..
Oh, sweetie, I don’t know what to tell you other than your boyfriend is obviously a retard……… when could you have kissed some other guy if you were with him?! l don’t understand why your boyfriend who apparently loves you so much, would believe someone else’s “rumor” over you.
If it was a girl that told him you kissed another guy, then she’s jealous and wants your boyfriend.. or if it was a guy then he’s jealous of your boyfriend and wants you… if neither of those options is the case then maybe whoever told your boyfriend that you kissed someone else is just crazy and doesn’t like to see other people happy.. OR they saw you kissing your boyfriend and didn’t think it was him. I really don’t know. If your boyfriend will speak to you then you should see him in person and go over everything that happened. Tell him that maybe someone mistook him for someone else and thought you were kissing another guy. Make sure you tell him that it never happened and you’re really hurt that he would believe someone else over you. etc etc. If he wont speak to you then write him a letter and put it in his letter box and hopefully he will read it. If not, then you don’t want to be with someone who will take someone elses word over your own and would break up with you before even knowing the facts anyway.
Good luck x
Anonymous asked: ILY By the way!!! okk im going crazy and i need your truthful advice. okk so i have been with this girl for four months now and i love her. the past few weeks she has been texting her ex girlfriend alot and i think she still has feeling for her because their relationship lasted four years. she has been distance lately and alot much moody. i have there convo over text and my gf texts to nice to her ex gf. and my gf is going to her exs graduationim i just being paranoid or or should i be worried??
I wouldn’t say you’re being paranoid, they’re completely normal feelings to have when exes are involved. I really think you should tell your girlfriend how you feel about her speaking to her ex girlfriend. Maybe she doesn’t know you feel this way. If your girlfriend hasn’t given you a reason not to trust her, then no you shouldn’t be worried but you should be aware of the situation and how much they speak to each other or what they speak about. Four years is a long time to be in a relationship with someone and you don’t get over it easily and there’s no doubt that she still loves her ex, because she always will but that doesn’t mean she’s “in love” in such a way that she wants to be with her. Does that make sense?
Definitely speak to your girlfriend and explain your feelings. Tell her you trust her but you’re just uncomfortable with her speaking to her ex girlfriend and ask her to put herself in your shoes and see how she would feel.
Good luck xx
hi, im 15 and there’s this guy i really like. We text a lot and it doesn’t take long for him to text back which i think is a good sign, but whenever i suggest meeting up in town or something, he changes the subject. We go to tennis once a week in a group so its not like i don’t know him but i wondered what i should do as i have given him a few obvious hints that i like him but i don’t really want to tell him. What should i do?
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I think that you should ask him in person. Next time you see him at tennis, go up to him and ask him what he’s doing after tennis and if he says nothing then ask if he wants to go.. get lunch or a snack(?) afterwards. If he seems as though he doesn’t know what to say, or changes his mind saying he does have something he has to do or says “maybe another time” but doesn’t suggest another day to do it then I would assume that maybe he’s either shy - which you need to ask him about, or maybe he’s just not interested in seeing you outside of tennis and just likes how it is with you texting each other. If you think it’s because he’s shy, then over text try asking him why he doesn’t want to meet up with you.
Good luck :)
Anonymous asked: Hi, so I've been with my boyfriend for one and a half months. Our relationship started off with us communicating a lot, but recently we rarely talk anymore. More and more whenever I call him, I find that he doesn't answer. When I text him, he doesn't reply. Just last night I asked if he was awake and he told me he was at a party and apologized about not replying previously for he was partying again. I was hurt and angry, I haven't talked to him since then. I'm afraid to bring it up because
(continued..) he tends to manipulate any argument we have making me seem immature. I appreciate any advice or suggestions you have. Thank you for your time and patience.
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Well if you’re feeling this way then you need to tell him exactly how you feel. It isn’t going to magically get better if you sit there and say nothing.. it’s going to get worse. I think that you need to see him in person and you need to tell him how you’re feeling. Tell him that you’re unhappy with the way you’re being treated and if he wants to be in this relationship he needs to put in 100% and not 50%.. he has to want to be in the relationship. If he tries to turn the argument against you just say “these are my feelings. you need to respect and accept the way I feel and you should be trying your best to stop me from feeling this way.”
If talking to him doesn’t change anything then I think you know where you stand. Good luck.
Anonymous asked: hey I was going out with this girl for nearly a month and then all of a sudden she broke up with me for her ex girlfriend. Then she broke up with her for me again but they were still talking and I read a text of the ex girlfriend to my girlfriend saying 'really, you'd pick me over a girl' I was really upset but now they have stopped talking and deleted and blocked each other but if I'm out with her friends they constantly talk about her and her ex and I get jealous really easily, what do I do? X
Sounds pretty messy to me. If I were you I’d probably just randomly straight out ask your girlfriend “do you still have feelings for your ex?” because if you surprise her with the question you should be able to tell by her reaction what the answer is. Or if she hesitates and fumbles for words. If she does that or she says yes, then I really wouldn’t recommend staying with her because it seems as though you’re just going to end up getting hurt again. The fact that you get jealous easily and have been put through all of this drama wont help either because you’re always going to have those doubts in the back of your mind.
You need to think about whether your girlfriend is really right for you and if she treats you how you should be treated. Best of luck x
So my ex boyfriend and I broke up about 2 months ago (we were dating for 8 months) He went back to his ex and I still really want to be with him.. He still texts me everyday and apparently him and his girlfriend fight all the time and I think they will break up soon. Do I wait for him or do I just move on?
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I think you need to think about whether you want to build another relationship on those kind of foundations. You “think” they will break up soon? Will they really? Or are you just saying it to make yourself feel better? If he texts you everyday while he’s with his girlfriend what’s not to say that he wont do it to you if you get back together?
Personally I think that if he dumped you for her, what’s the point of waiting around for him? If he wanted to be with you then he would be. Trust me.
Anonymous asked: while me and my bf of over a year were in a huge fight i met this guy. he knows i have a bf and he is so nice. he moved . i dont like to text him so i told him i got my phone got taken away and we only really talk over skype. me and my bf are both really protective and he doesnt know about this. should i just stop talking to this guy? or what do i do? please help?
If you think you are starting to develop feelings for this other guy but you love your boyfriend and the relationship you have, then yes, stop speaking to him. Otherwise, if you definitely think you can be just friends with this guy, tell your boyfriend about him. Your boyfriend might be upset at first but he will be happy that you have told him about it. It’s not fair to hide things from your boyfriend because I’m sure you wouldn’t appreciate it if he did it to you and you found out later on some other way. When you tell him just say you’ve just been speaking to him every now and then, he’s a nice guy and you’re just friends and he knows about your boyfriend and you talk about your boyfriend to him etc. Just to make him feel more at ease. Say that you didn’t want to hide it from him because you thought it wasn’t fair on him but that you’re allowed to have guy friends or whatever else you want to say. If you don’t want to be with your boyfriend anymore then you need to tell him, as soon as possible. Don’t drag it out.
Good luck.
Anonymous asked: I've been talking to this guy I've met 6 years ago. He lives 4 hours away because I had moved from him. I just recently saw him and everything went perfect and we started dating, however, over text he can barely keep a conversation. He just gets so boring. He also tells me he loves me, but I don't understand how. What do I do?
Well don’t worry too much about not being able to keep up a conversation over text. It isn’t really for that. If he can’t keep a conversation over something like Skype or the phone, or Facebook chat or whatever you use to talk to each other when you’re away from each other, then that’d be a bit of an issue. I really only see texting as a way to tell the other person quickly what’s happened in your day or something of the sort. You can’t really expect to have a proper and meaningful conversation over text. Well you said that you’ve known each other for a long time so it’s possible that he loved you the whole time. He may not technically ‘love’ the person you are now because he hasn’t gotten to know you again yet, but that’s probably why he says it. Also, some people feel like its mandatory to say “I love you” once you make a relationship official. It isn’t. Just because he says it, doesn’t mean you have to. Wait until you are ready :)
Best of luck xx
Anonymous asked: Um, hi. I just want to ask if you can give me an advice to this problem of mine. Um well, I'm a 15 year old highschool and I have a boyfriend who is 16 year old. I really like him, he was the first one to be close to me through text and so I had a crush for him since September 2011. We started dating on May 2012. But before May, I had a friend which I met only in March but I really don't know why there was a sudden change in me. My feelings changed. I don't know if it's cheating or not.
I’m not sure if I’m missing a part to this message or not but from what I can gather, if you have feelings for someone else you should end things with your boyfriend. It technically isn’t cheating but it’s not fair on your boyfriend. I’m sure you wouldn’t appreciate it if he had feelings for someone else and was just stringing you along. Be honest with him.
Anonymous asked: hey, so me and my boyfriend been dating for a month now, and we have sooo much in common and im crazy about himm, and hes always telling me he cares about me and tht he can never be madd at mee ... im trying to send him a sweet textt message to him but all my thoughts are jumbled together that i dont know what to say , can you help me :(
Sure I can.. Just say what you feel as you feel it. If you really love having him as a part of your life, tell him. If you’re really excited about getting to know him better on a different level, tell him. If you think you can see yourself having a future with him, tell him. If that still doesn’t work, you could try sending him lyrics to a song that relate to how you feel :)
Best of luck xx
Anonymous asked: I talk to this guy that my boyfriend doesn’t get along with anymore. My boyfriend knows I text him and stuff. My boyfriends on holiday and comes back on Saturday but in his absence this other guy has been texting me a lot and has asked me to the cinema several times despite me saying no, we haven’t texted anything sexual but ive got to know his likes and dislikes a lot more in my boyfriends absence. Everytime I talk to my boyfriend about the other guy he gets mad and says he trusts me so nothing
(continued) ..else should matter, but should I tell him? And is me texting this other guy essentially me cheating?
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I wouldn’t call it cheating because it’s not like you’re keeping it a secret from your boyfriend that you text this guy. I would say it will be a branch out of cheating if you started liking him while you’re still with your boyfriend, or being flirty or whatever, but there’s nothing wrong with having guy friends even if you have a boyfriend.
Now, obviously your boyfriend gets mad because there’s a reason that they don’t get along. If you don’t know the reason why, I would suggest you find out because that could be why your boyfriend doesn’t like you speaking to him. Maybe he told your boyfriend that he likes you or maybe he’s stolen a friends girlfriend in the past or something like that.. who knows. It’s not strange for your boyfriend to get upset that you speak to him, even if he does trust you. Maybe he trusts you but he doesn’t trust the other guy and obviously he has a reason for that (especially since this guy keeps trying to ask you out which is pretty rude considering the circumstances.)
I think that once you speak to your boyfriend and ask him why he doesn’t like this other guy or why he gets so upset that you speak to him, you can then make the decision to tell him that the other guy asked you to go to the cinemas with him. If the reason they don’t get along is because of something that happened in the past, then I think that it’s okay that you leave the whole ‘cinema’ thing out of the conversation - you didn’t go anyway and telling your boyfriend would only upset him and make him not like the other guy even more. If this other guy keeps asking you out though, I think that he’s probably getting the wrong kind of messages from you and you will need to make it clear that you love your boyfriend and want nothing more than friendship with this other guy.
Good luck with it all, I hope all that made sense! xx
Ps. Put yourself in your boyfriend’s shoes. Don’t do anything that you would be uncomfortable with your boyfriend doing to you….
Anonymous asked: Me and this guy started constantly texting, he was really caring and nice and would say sweet things and always compliment me, now he seems dull and I am the one to text first and the convo quickly ends where it used to last for hours. when I see him in person he is quiet around me now and smiles and stares a lot. I was thinking maybe he does because he's just attracted to me but realized he lost interest or something? I don't want to annoy him if this is the case by continuing to text him first
Okay well there’s really only one way to deal with this and that is to ask him. Just text him and say
“Hey I was just wondering if something’s up or if I did something wrong because you seem pretty distant lately compared to how you used to be. Is everything okay?”
And hopefully that will get him to open up about what’s going on. If he insists that everything is fine, then try not to text him and see if he texts you first. If he does, maybe he does like you or is interested but has some other issues going on or is busy with something. If not, then he probably isn’t interested in you. Sometimes someone can seem like they are really into you and then out of nowhere their feelings will change. Some people are just like that. Definitely find out from him first though because there’s no use sitting around wondering and making up theories in your head!
Best of luck :)
